The quandry of having kids
This is an age-old dilemma for any young couple — even if few admit it out loud. You usually fall into one of three categories. First, you love kids. You want them with a conviction so strong it could make any relationship jealous. Second, you’re uncertain. Eighteen years is a long commitment — one that comes with less-than-adequate sleep, money, and time for nearly everything that’s yours. (And you thought committing to a partner for life was the hard part!). And third, you're someone who sees life like that dreamy scene from your favorite comfort movie — the one you’d shoo and elbow people out of the way to watch, least you miss the best part. You want to soak that scene in. Just you, your partner, and no interruptions. So the question arises - Which basket do i find my heart to be in ? Let me start with what I think of kids. They’re undeniably adorable — not just human babies, but baby animals too. They radiate an innocence most of us smoked, drank, cursed, or fucked away on th...